Don’t you hate when all the things your were thinking and feeling were really non-existent and all in your head? Actually I hate that I was so wrapped up in imagined feelings that I took for granted what I had.

Don’t do this. It strains relationships, causes arguments…and when you have finally hashed everything out and days later you realize what a moron you were…you feel horrible.

I guess that is why I married a good man, so I know he will forgive me and we can move on.

I know that I can change. Change is good. Change…has actually been freeing. I feel better about myself…and just in relation to myself, no one else.

1. Let’s face it. She is pretty cool.
2. She has many clothes you can borrow!
3. She can watch Kaleb while you shower.
4. She can watch Kaleb while you go on dates with your husband.
5. You can have dance parties while listening to “Feel so close.”
6. She can return your library books.
7. She can go shopping with you.
8. She can wake up early with Kaleb so you and your husband can sleep in!
9. She gets you hopelessly addicted to United States of Tara. And then you cry together that is was canceled.
10. You can reminisce about your childhood.
11. She can help you make fun of Steve.
12. She can clean your bathrooms!

I found this Blog, and the author has a post about how important his friends are to him. This is so Steve. He loves his friends so much, he would do anything for them…and they have already done the anything him. Here is an excerpt from aformentioned blog and post that really gives you a glimpes into the psyche of my man:

“I have friends I consider brothers. They know this. I have told them… I have been helped so much by these people in so many ways. They may tell you that I have done the same, but that barely matters. I love them, as much as anyone could love someone. The least I can do is try to keep up with them. Not as in, catch up with them, but grow with them and try to better both our lives.”

You totally choose your friends. Steve has surrounded himself with great friends, I have yet to come across similar people. His friends are now my friends, and they just blow my mind. I love them too.

This morning Steve got up with Kaleb. It was glorious. Even more glorious, he did the dishes! Whoot for me!